If you are getting remarried, you obviously want to celebrate, but it is also important to focus on less exciting matters like redoing your estate plan.  You may have created an estate plan during your first marriage, but this time it will probably be more complicated-especially if you have children from your first marriage or more assets.  The following are some pointers for ensuring that your interests are taken care of when you remarry:

• Take an inventory.  The first thing you and your partner should do is each take an inventory of your assets and debts and share it with the other person.  Don’t forget to include life insurance policies and retirement plans in your inventories.  It is important to be open and honest about money if you want to prevent bad feelings in the future.
• Decide how you want to handle finances.  Once you know what you are dealing with, then you need to decide if you want to combine (or not combine) assets when you are married.  For example, if one partner is selling a house and moving in with the other partner, will he or she contribute to the cost of the house?  If one partner has significant debt, you may not want to combine finances or make any joint purchases.  These decisions need to be made upfront so everyone is clear on what to expect.
• Decide what you want to happen when you die.  You and your future spouse need to figure out where each of you wants your assets to go when you die.  If you have children from a previous marriage, this can be a complicated discussion.  There is no guarantee that if you leave your assets to your new spouse, he or she will provide for your children after you are gone.  There are a number of options to ensure your children are provided for, including creating a trust for your children, making your children beneficiaries of life insurance policies, or giving your children joint ownership of property.  Even if you don’t have children, there may be family heirlooms or mementos that you want to keep in your family.  Again, open discussions can prevent problems in the future.
• Consult an elder law or estate planning attorney.  Even if you don’t have a lot of assets, you should consult an attorney, especially if you have children.  You will definitely need to update your will.  You may also need to update or create other estate planning documents such as a durable power of attorney and a health care representative.  If you have significant assets, a prenuptial agreement may be appropriate.  In addition, the attorney can help you decide if a trust is necessary to protect your children’s interest.